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December 9, 2009

What motivates us to share our thoughts, feelings, and actions online?

Filed under: Blogging, Technology — Nick Oliva @ 11:09 am
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A friend and colleague, Matt Krieger, asked my opinion:

What fundamental psychology motivates people to share their thoughts and feelings and actions on Facebook, Twitter, etc and where do u think people found their outlet before them?  Or did they not have an outlet before and these social sites are SO disruptive that they created a new type of expression?

We’re obviously living through a time when technology has broken through the human barrier by shedding – or, rather, cloaking – the clunky and scientific foundations with designs that are so usable that your grandmother picks up on things right away. But does it facilitate doing things we already do or does it create entirely new ways of doing things?

I have to think Facebook, iPhones, etc. are best when they make it easier to do things you did without technology anyway. This is where I think they’re successful at motivating us. People, companies, groups, etc. are all reluctant to adopt entirely new things. This is why many startup businesses can’t break through – because what they offer is too radical. There’s a segment of the population that likes radical, but there’s no money to be made there, so it’s a red flag to appeal to them.

Posting on Facebook is different than on Twitter – or writing a blog entry. For Facebook, the non-technology metaphor is simply a classroom; this is why it was successful in evolving from something used in universities. I’m motivated to post something on Facebook for the same reason I was motivated in classrooms (and am now motivated in business and social meetings) to crack jokes: I love to make a room full of people crack up. My batting average isn’t spectacular, but it’s good enough that I take as many at bats as I can. When you post something on Facebook and people comment and like it, you feel you have achieved the equivalent of a chuckle or a laugh. When you post something you think is funny and nobody reacts, you feel like you’re standing in front of the mirror telling yourself jokes. Sometimes my mother will tell me she’s watched a video that I posted of my son a hundred times, but I wouldn’t have known that if she hadn’t told me – I felt I was playing to an empty room. This is a minor thing that Facebook could do to complete the experience for me: show me how many times people have viewed my videos – even if they don’t show me who viewed them. After all, when you’re on stage you don’t see the faces of the people in the audience, but you know they’re there.

Twitter is different. Twitter is still in the middle of its evolution. It’s not yet mature and it doesn’t tie directly to an experience you have in real life. It’s going to have to evolve to continue to grow. Otherwise, people are going to get tired of it. Technology just doesn’t exist for its own sake – it’s only good when it’s improves the things we already do without it.

December 4, 2009

A simpler explanation for Tiger Woods….

Filed under: Blogging, Sillyness — Nick Oliva @ 4:58 pm
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The road to high performance isn't always paved.

Sometimes there’s a simpler explanation for things that gets lost in all the craziness. This is a page from this week’s Economist magazine (that’s my thumb in the lower left corner).

As you can see, Tiger – being a high performer – is used to being on unpaved roads. This explains why he ran over the fire hydrant and slammed into the tree. It’s unfortunate that people are looking for more sinister explanations. ;-)

I have to say that while I couldn’t resist making this silly joke, I have nothing but contempt for the moralizers that think it’s any business of theirs to be gossiping about this man’s personal life. All pretentions to being a role model and submitting himself to scrutiny went out the window when Tiger dropped out of Stanford to pursue his pro career. On top of that, he’s made it clear that his personal life is personal… not some reality TV show.

Mind your own business you gossiping busybodies!

How many people don’t know that Wi-Fi at Starbucks is free?

Filed under: Blogging, Public Service Announcement — Nick Oliva @ 9:05 am

This is a public service announcement. Starbucks Wi-Fi is free!

People don’t seem to know this. I’m constantly being asked when I’m on my computer at Starbucks whether I’m paying for the connection. Also, whenever I hear someone say that they have however many minutes left in the time they bought, I interrupt them and say, “Hey, you’re an idiot.” Then, I explain how it’s done:

  1. Get a Starbucks debit card. It’s free. You’re going to buy stuff at Starbucks anyway, so just do it in two steps instead of one: put the money on the card and then buy what you’re going to buy anyway using the card.
  2. Go to Starbucks.com and register your card. There’s a number on the back of the card that you use for this.
  3. Use the login you created to sign in to “att wi-fi” when the Wi-Fi default page opens up in your browser.

This is supposed to give you up to two hours per day for free. I’ve found that I can stay on much longer than two hours. I don’t actually know that they knock you off, but it hasn’t been a problem for me.

December 1, 2009

Infected by Style

Filed under: Blogging, Writing — Nick Oliva @ 9:07 am
One gets infected, it is true, by the style of a work that one has been reading.
- Hercule Poirot, in The Clocks. Agatha Christie

This is the best phrasing I have read of something I have always known to be true and have expressed often. I have kept a journal for many years and I can always tell who I was reading at the time I wrote something. My Hemingway journal entries are the most obvious. Dickens and Austen I can’t distinguish, but I know I’m reading something from those times.

I used to wonder whether it was a bad thing. Is my own style so undefined that it can be so easily “infected”? I still have something of a concern about this, but I see it much more as a good thing. I conclude that it’s just that I haven’t yet developed my own style to the point where I’m conscious of it and careful enough to nurture it and ensure it doesn’t become contaminated or corrupted.

Should you read the authors you want to emulate when you are preparing to write something? I would say definitely yes. It’s my intention when I one day sit down to write my masterpiece first novel (ahem!), to re-read all of the books I have annotated over the years for having stylistic, development, or other devices that I want to weave into my own writing.

Is it contrived that I’m conscious of this? Absolutely not. Musicians have their influences as do writers. What I don’t think is generally discussed is how what you are reading or listening to right at the moment impacts your own work. I’m curious whether writers cultivate this phenomenon or even are aware of it when they write.

August 1, 2009

If everyone could look after their Starbucks as I look after mine…

Filed under: Blogging, Sillyness — Nick Oliva @ 3:11 pm

… so I’m sitting at Starbucks long enough that I’m beginning to feel the numbness in my left butt cheek. I think to myself, “Guess I’d better shift to the other butt cheek again.”

But then, a strange thing happens that makes all thoughts of preservation of my posterior blood flow seem almost trivial…. It started when a skinny, heroin addict-looking blonde in a white dress sitting in front of me left around a half hour ago. The front door opens and she walks back in – I just happened to be looking towards the door in my effort to appear to be shifting from boredom and not from bodily discomfort, so I noticed.

But now she’s carefully, almost deliberately, wrapping a shawl around her shoulders – a shawl she didn’t have on before. She heads into the bathroom and I, having satisfied my curiosity – and wondering whether butt-sores result from aerodynamically, rather than ergonomically, designed chairs – I lost interest.

A couple of minutes go by and I see her walking away from Starbucks. She’s carrying, wrapped in a shawl, something that looks suspiciously like a picture frame. Busybody that I am, and not aloof to the simple pleasures of the classic girlfight, I picked a worthy opponent behind the counter and explained what I had just seen.

She said, “picture frame?”… and smiled… and went back to mixing some grande skim no-whip outrage in chai or mocha.

I high-stepped it back to my table because the kid with the “I’m a Linux” look started to get dangerously close, and I now realized that this Starbucks was no place to leave your belongings unattended.

I, Nick Oliva… I’ve heeded the call of New York’s Finest: I saw something and I said something.

But nobody listened.

Sure, my butt is rested now and I can probably still waive the girl away a couple more times when she tries to take the empty cup that legitimizes my presence in this tiny corner of this once-great coffee shop where I used to feel safe, but have I made the world a better place?

June 9, 2009

Finally restarting my personal blog

Filed under: Blogging — Nick Oliva @ 8:52 am

NickOliva.com used to be where very silly things were published. I stopped using this site when I stopped using the software I used to publish it. I’d like, for personal reasons, to repost some of the old items… the Caliph’s Cup, for example.

Of course, it’s likely that much of what I post going forward will be about the little guy…

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With Nico at Riverside Park, May 2009

… and the little lady.

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